The Backseat
Interpretation & Meaning
The world from the back window is slide after slide of a presentation that you’re comfortably not following.
What matters are the familiar smell and voices, your thoughts off-roading as there naturally morphs into here.
The backseat is a place of privileged detachment but also an exercise in trust.
When this card shows up in a reading, it’s time to take your hands off the wheel of your life and trust someone else with that power.
The emotional/physical/intellectual load you’re carrying might be too heavy. Whether you need teamwork, guidance or delegation, this card is a sign that you can’t do it alone and have to trust someone else to move you forward.
This is also the card of faith, be it religious or personal. Your momentary or long-term happiness is in the hands of someone who could destroy it at any time. The Backseat demands that you surrender to this idea and embrace it without the shadow of a doubt.
This card ensures you can reach your destination if you place full trust into the people, entities or processes that can get you there.
Keywords: faith • trust • delegation • faith vs doubt • trusting the process
Practical References
Places | Sanctuary, Hospital, Day-Care, Kindergarten, Bank |
Work | Priest, Spiritual guide, Sex worker, Product Owner, Project Manager, Co-Pilot |
Situations & Life Events | Living on food stamps, receiving unemployment benefits |
Activities | Financial investments, Getting a loan, Starting a fundraiser, Getting plastic surgery, Hiring a personal trainer, Riding horses, Taking planes |
Archetypes | Man of faith |
Homework & Practice
In order to embody the teachings of this card, you can:
- Read the sacred scriptures of your own religion, if you’re a person of faith
- Write down a to-do list for the week and identify tasks that you can either delegate or require assistance with.
- Think of ways in which you can share your power, either practical (work projects, family responsibilities) or more symbolic.
- Reflect on the people, processes and institutions that helped you reach your life objectives. Try to imagine what would have happened if they hadn’t been a part of your journey. Would you have made it all alone?